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Stop reciting
the list.

Every time you meet someone new, the same conversation. Mutual asks everyone separately and shows only what you have in common.

Create your profile

About seven minutes, once. Reuse it with everyone after that.

Already have one? Log in with your code and passphrase.

How it works

You and your partner answer once

85 items, one per screen, four buttons each. Saved behind a code and a passphrase. No email, no account, nothing to remember but those two.

Invite a couple, or a single

You get a private link for each guest. They answer on their own phone without seeing anything of yours.

Results unlock when everyone is done

Nobody sees anything early. Anything marked a hard limit is stripped out before the overlap is built, and is never shown, hinted at, or counted.

Do it again next week with someone else

Your answers stay put. The next couple costs you one link and none of your time.

What it looks like

Katelin31 / 85

With your own partner

Watching your partner with someone else

Done it

Want to

Curious

Hard no

What this means · Add a note

One tap each. Splitting yes into done it and want to captures experience without a second question.

unlocked

Everyone is in

Kissing on the mouth NKRA

Everyone in one bed NKRA

Spanking NKRA

Being watched by everyone NKRA

The overlap. Filled means done it, outlined means wants to, dashed means curious.

pairing

Katelin & Rae

power dynamic with someone new

Katelin Dominant

Rae Submissive

Restraints Katelin does it, Rae receives

Direction matters. Two people who both want to be tied up is not a match, and the app says so.

The questions

85 items across fifteen sections, weighted towards how a group night actually runs rather than a list of equipment. Anything that does not apply to you is not asked.

MouthRoleplay and dress How the night is arrangedRestraint With your own partnerAttention Power dynamicsRough play PenetrativeGroup acts Same-sex contactSame-sex, in the group Power, across the groupExhibition and voyeurism How it ends

A few of them, so you know the register:

01Kissing on the mouth 02Everyone in one bed 03Watching your partner with someone else 04Being the one left out for a while 05Strangers meeting for the first time 06Being directed by someone who is not your partner 07Talking about it together before anyone leaves

Every item has a plain description one tap away, and you can attach a note to any answer. "Yes, but not in front of people" is a different yes.

What it will not do

Show anyone your answers. Only the overlap, never the raw list. Comparisons are computed on the server, so there is nothing to read in the browser.
Reveal a hard limit. Not as a near miss, not as a count, not by omission.
Score you. No percentages, no rankings, no compatibility number.
Ask for an email. There is no account, so there is nothing to leak and nothing to reset.
Keep it forever. Guest links and comparisons expire. Your profile lasts until you delete it, which is one button.

Worth being clear about

Mutual is an icebreaker, not an agreement. It shows where stated preferences overlap and nothing more. Consent still has to be given in person, freely, and can be withdrawn at any moment whatever any screen said. Adults only, 18 or over, and everyone you invite must be too.

It is free, run by one person, and provided as-is with no guarantees of uptime or security. There is no email on file, so a lost code or passphrase cannot be recovered by anyone, including us.

Ready?

Two labels, a passphrase, and about seven minutes each.